Once upon a time, in a more primitive world, anger was an emotion that allowed us to fight more effectively with physical strength. These type situations really don’t exist as much and experiencing anger can actually be destructive.
Of course, anger is a natural emotion and in many cases it is justified. It’s when the anger causes us to react in ways that are unjust and can actually harm others and ourselves.
Not being able to control your anger can cause many emotional and health problems.
Unfortunately, I have experienced many people that are unable to control their anger. Most will not take the time to visit anger management counseling groups or go into therapy. They feel embarrassed. So, when a close friend of mine was having real problems and basically ruining their life due to anger outbursts, I tried to find whatever I could to help. It was affecting me too.
I know we all handle anger in different ways and the reasons for anger will vary.
I noticed that it was coming from a combination of things. When my friend felt anger, irritability, rage or too many things on his mind, anything would set him off. It was scary. i knew how I felt when I got irritable or had some sort of stressful situation going on. So I could imagine when you can’t control it.
A low self esteem can cause you to feel angry. So many things can cause anger and make you feel out of control with it.
Usually, too many issues on your mind can lead to irritability, which will then lead to anger which can be triggered by even the smallest issue. You find yourself asking how you will ever be able to control this force that overcomes you.
Many people are told they have a chemical imbalance causing their frequent anger outbursts, so they are then put on medicine. My friend tried this, but it didn’t really solve anything.
Anger can feel so intense that it results in acts of violence and/or aggression. This is when the anger is a big problem and needs to controlled. People WILL get hurt. It has to be controlled. I am hoping through my experience that people will get the help they need. I know first hand now that this can be cured and controlled.
Once you have realized and taken the responsibility of being a person having difficulty controlling anger then you must be steadfast with changing your behavior when the anger intensity is high.
Turns out, it’s not even hard to get it under control. Controlling anger is actually pretty easy through hypnosis. And you can do it in your own home in complete privacy.
Through hypnotherapy you can understand where the anger is manifesting from and show you how to feel more relaxed and calm. When a situation arises and you feel your blood pressure elevarte and your adrenaline pumping, you will be able to quickly revert back to this relaxed, calm state and control the anger before the anger gets the best of you.
I found this company that offers hypnosis for pretty much everything. They have all sorts of issues listed. Hypnosis Downloads It’s so effective. I even use it myself for other issues.
If you find you like it, you can even get a monthly membership to it and its really inexpensive. You can pick from hundreds and hundreds of downloads to listen to. You literally have results in just one time of hearing the downloads.
So whether you are controlling anger or trying to stop smoking or need a better self esteem. Whatever, they have something for everything.
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September 6th, 2010 at 13:00
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when i was younger (10 – 13 yrs) i used to get so mad that i would start hitting things and get very violent, until one day i relized that being violent was no way to deal with my anger, so i decided that i needed to find a new way, well i got really deep into video games and working on computers, so i used to build or repair computers, and also play video games to Relieve my stress and anger
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“Anger is meant to be listened to. Anger is a voice a shout, a plea, a demand. Anger is meant to be respected. Why? Because anger is a map. Anger shows us where our boundaries are. Anger shows us where we want to go. It lets us see where we have been and lets us know when we have not liked it. Anger is meant to be acted upon, it is not meant to be acted out. Sloth, apathy and despair are the enemy. Anger is not. Anger is our friend. Not a nice friend. Not a gentle friend. But a very very loyal friend. It will always tell us when we have been betrayed. It will always tell us when we have betrayed ourselves. It will always tell us it is time to act in our own best interest”.
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